Friday, July 31, 2015

Feeling Real

During those brief, but distinct little moments of clarity...

you'll find your sanity waiting there for you.

Thursday, July 30, 2015

Crap Words and True Deeds

We tell people what we want them to think about us. 

We show people who we really are.

Wednesday, July 29, 2015

Don't Leave Your Life To Chance

"Wishing for change is expecting someone else to take care of it.

We all know how well that usually works out."

Susi Bocks

Wednesday, July 22, 2015

Whatever You Do, Take Charge Of Your Life

"Don't allow yourself to be limited by the dismal outlook of others. They aren't the deciders of your future."
                                                                  Susi Bocks

Friday, July 17, 2015

Figuring Out People



Bottom line - you have everything in front of you, keep your eyes wide open. What comes out of their mouths has to match their behavior.

Beware of mendacious humans.

Wednesday, July 15, 2015

Lovers, Their Damage

Endings... good or bad, I've suffered. And still...

I'm caged right now by my past experience, wrestling with current thoughts or desires.

Needs arise when the past introduces itself into my present. Deep aching ensues.

Inner turmoil. Will it finally pass?

Will it?

Thursday, July 9, 2015

Breathing In, Breathing Out

j. gira


  • determination
  • adventure
  • tolerance
  • balance
  • calm
  • kindness
  • compassion
  • independence
  • confidence
  • peacefulness


  • aimlessness
  • fear
  • hate
  • chaos
  • nervousness
  • cruelty
  • apathy
  • dependence
  • doubt
  • strife

The things you take in and adapt for yourself, adding to the foundation of who you are, these allow you to become the person you are aiming for. Letting go of those things which hold you back, however you achieve it, doing that will help you hit your mark sooner.

Life is an exercise of endless adjustments, large and small. How much we change depends on how much we want to gain.

Monday, July 6, 2015

Camouflaged Love

The hate, it comes in waves. You think that's all there is. There's more...

Underneath the hate is a love aching to be healed, and also to love again. Deeply. Better next time.

I buried my love for you, but you helped push it deeper down, and away from sight. Waiting for a rebirth.

Will it happen?
Is it possible to love again after so much pain?
Will I choose it or continue with my hate?

Achingly slow is the process to healing. One justified reason after another makes me take my time to resolve this pain.

Some I will never return to, their infliction was just too much to bear. Others will remain within my battlefield for a long time until there is no longer hate, but also no longer any love to speak of or feel. Then there are those who are worthy of me to gift again with my precious love. I or rather we, work together to remove the camouflage of hate.

Thursday, July 2, 2015

This New Day

I forge a determined path of beneficial destruction. Getting down to the business of leaving behind broken enemies, in-your-face liars, betrayers and the down-right unlikable. The self-empowered road stakes a claim on a sane future. I'm surrounded by genuine words, friends and actions.

Behold this better life... the one I am deserving of.