Me: I think I know what could help me with my change in eating habits.
You: Cool, how could I do that?
Me: Well, you know that I have a hard time resisting sweets. How about you take all the goodies you buy and put them in either a hidden place or a locked place, so I won't access them?
You: Why should I do that? How does that help you? Shouldn't you just learn self-control and just not eat the things that are bad for your goals?
Me: You and I are different. You could sit there and eat 10 chips or a handful of gummi bears and you're done. I, on the other hand, start with one and then the whole bag is gone. We're different and I'm asking for your help to solve this. Outta sight, outta mind kind of thing.
You: But then I have to go out of my way to enjoy my stuff. I'm not the one with the problem with self-control.
Me: Yeah, you're right. I am the one with the problem. I have an addictive personality and that's difficult to overcome. In addition, I also seem to be with a man who claims to want to help me when I'm struggling with something. But realistically it has to be convenient for him.